Tuesday 15 January 2008

请自我检讨...

有些人,是一出生就只会埋怨,批评,嫌弃...在他们的眼里,别人都很有问题,自己好像很了不起,什么都对的样子。他们自己应该已经把自己当成个圣人了。
天天都只会说人家这样不对,那样不好,应该这样,不该那样的...讲到头头是道,却都不曾问过自己是否真的有做到自己所谓的那么完美无瑕!看了都令人反感!
自己做不到的东西,就不要要求别人也做到给你啦!你还没有这个资格!请你好好给我自我检讨!

20 comments:

CKC said...

我不知道要写什么。。。看你没有comments。。。就可怜你啦。。。哈哈哈。。。

Anonymous said...

都不是给你看的,你当然看不懂。。。

Anonymous said...

Calm down, dun so "Heng", not good for health!!

Anonymous said...

my intonation heng nia...myself not heng...hehehe...

Gine said...

well, do you think the person in question will read this post? I believe it's important to let them know, one way or another, if you really care for the friend of yours. It doesn't feel great to tell someone off. In fact, it is terrifying, especially when you are the one with the different thought and you believe you have to make a change. But as we are growing together, and this is one of the stage in life we have to encounter one day.

Anonymous said...

I dint plan to tell the person...Even i do, i dont think the person will listen to what i told...and i never care he or she can change or not...It's non of my business...i just trying to let off some negative emotion here, dint expect to see anything change...

Anonymous said...

谁这么厉害,竟敢招惹神,应该是不曾见试过神的功力吧!

Anonymous said...

那个人是你告诉我的那个吗?

Anonymous said...

贪吃~世界上总有不知死活的人类的。
贱圣~不是。

Anonymous said...

I agree totally and utterly agree with you lei, though i don't who are you talking but i also most scare of this kind of person. Better avoid than meet liao, coz anything they can comment, just anything.....hash... also don't know why they behave like that. can only say that yi4 zhong2 mi3 yang3 bai2 zhong3 ren2 lor....
no need to care them act de la..:)
mouth is theirs, we can't control also ma...just take all that as transparent lor. hehe....:)

Anonymous said...

前几天,我也是有这样的想法。。。很够力咯!!!!我也不喜欢这样。。。。

Anonymous said...

Anonymous~hehehe...but some people, u just cant avoid to see them around...now i try to be deaf when necessary...hahaha..
shanna~哎。。。难免咯,这种人蛮常见的,避都避不了。。。

CKC said...

酱就讲明狗不准看啦。。

Unknown said...

我从来不歧视小动物。

Anonymous said...

we all are not perfect person . in the other word . .we all r not qualified to commend the creatures that created by god . hehe

i'm @zhe~ said...

because we are not perfect, so that's why we need more comments to make something or someone to become more perfect...it's a kind of "jian tao"...this is how human being developed or improved...don't just keep ourselves in the imperfect way...
And for your information, i'm also a god, but just not the god that create u...

Gine said...

Si Zhe, you've missed one point: It's true that human being learn from mistakes, but does the person in question KNOW that he's made a mistake? Is it really his fault if he didn't realise his mistake or his friends' fault they didn't bother to tell him about it? After all, what are friends for, if not to correct and rebuke you sometimes, to make you improve?

i'm @zhe~ said...

If a person has done a mistake, it is for sure that is his/her fault, not others...He/she cannot blame the people around him/her for not telling him/her...They have nothing to do with the mistake that he/she made...They dint trigger it, they don't have the responsibility for it...and may be as a friend, we should have told them, but the question is...is the person that i mentioned, considered as a friend of mine?

yH said...

很多人都很厉害抱怨。真的不明白。。有时抱怨听多了,我觉得他们很吵。

i'm @zhe~ said...

我也有同感,就是觉得很吵。当我们觉得吵的时候,已经懒得去理谁对谁错了,吵我的就是不可能对就是了。